So Why Am I Really Mad?

Ever get mad at someone because they didn’t behave how you wanted them to?

That happened to me last night and before I knew it I was mentally breaking off a really good friendship just because I was hurt.

Thing is….the person I was mad at didn’t even know it. It was a completely inside job.

This little internal battle reminded me of a truth I often share with people:

The only reason people get mad is because they’re not getting their way.

In my case I wanted this person to communicate in a certain way that just wasn’t happening. And no amount of me forcing my will is going to change that.

So what can I do?

I can manifest a change in this relationship.  Which is exactly what I decided to do.  And once I made that decision my attitude shifted and harmony was restored once again :)

What changes would you like to manifest in your relationships?

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