Maria the Muse

One of the first steps in manifesting using the Law of Attraction is to decide what it is you want.  And if you’ve been following me for any length of time then you know that I often say that what you really want isn’t always what you think it is.

So how do you get to the real desire behind the surface one?

One very powerful way is to ask yourself WHY.

Think about what you want and then ask “Why do I want that?”

Then ask “why” again.  And again.  And continue asking until the answer you come up with feels a little scary and uncomfortable.  Because when you reach the point of scary and uncomfortable, you’ll know you’ve reached the heart of why you want what you want.

Yes, I know this seems to go against all the “feel good” stuff we talk about in Law of Attraction.  But sometimes the real reasons behind our desires aren’t all sunny and happy.  Sometimes we want things because we want to be healed from our pain, hurt or embarrassment.  And that’s perfectly ok.

Because once we are really honest and face the true motivation behind our wants (painful as it may be) we will truly understand, at a core level what our real desires are.  And manifesting our real desires is so much more gratifying and fulfilling than dancing around the surface ones!

You can do it :)