Can LOA Save My Marriage, Job (Fill in the Blank)…

In a word……………. NO, it can’t.

But before you get disgusted with me and this whole Law of Attraction and Manifesting thing, let me explain why.

When you start talking about “saving” things, by definition you are talking about losing them.  I mean, you wouldn’t even think of saving something unless you thought you wouldn’t have it, right?

Unfortunately, the minute you start trying to save something you’re sending out a very strong vibration that says “I’m going to lose this….I must fight to prevent that!”

And what does the Universe bring you?  You guessed it….. lots of struggle, drama, and eventual loss of exactly what you’re trying to save.

If I can’t save it then what am I supposed to do?

Good question.  Obviously we all want better relationships, careers, health, abundance, etc.  And the way to achieve that is to stop trying to save what you have (which is probably less than ideal anyway) and start creating what you want!

  • Think about what an ideal relationship looks and feels like to you, then go about creating it in your heart and mind.
  • Fantasize about how the perfect work environment feels and spend time each day in that place, if only in your imagination.
  • Take time to close your eyes and really experience what radiant health feels like.  Even if you are very sick and in a lot of pain, it is possible to experience relief for a moment when you relax and allow your body to show you how it wants to feel.

When you focus on creating what you want (and ignoring what isn’t working), you’ll find that your attitude improves, you’re calmer and more peaceful, you go with the flow much better, and yes…. your outer conditions will begin to change to reflect what you are creating.

Inner change first makes outer change work!

So stop trying to “save” things and focus instead on creating the new.  You’ll have much better results and those things you’ve been trying to save will take care of themselves :)

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